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Old 09-06-2008, 10:18 PM   #1
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The Girl Help Thread!

To save the forum from the clutter of threads and posts about advice/complaints/etc. I decided to make this thread.

I began playing "The Game" in seventh grade when I still hadn't ever had a girlfriend and I was worried I'd never get one. In my head, I was freaking out. "Great, I'll be the first in my family to not reproduce and carry on my name." Already I was worried about the future, and I was too worried to focus on the present. I began looking into things around the internet, some of it was good, most of it was bad. I decided to develop my own type of game, which is nothing special, it's just me being me, but it works. I'm going to share every single thing I know about women and relationships with you because I don't want anyone to be unsuccessful with one of the main aspects of life. A lot of people think the sole purpose of life is to replicate, how can you do that if you can't even talk?

Terms:
  • AFC-average-frustrated-chump. basically has no sense of game and only has sex with less than five girls his entire life.
  • PUA-pickup artist
  • HB#-Hot babe #
  • Opener-what you use to open a set/frame
  • Set/frame-if you approach a group of four girls, you're approaching a 4set. It's just the group your approaching is a set or frame.
  • Close-closing the set. An exchange of numbers usually occurs (if not more).
  • IOI-indication of interest
  • AMOG-alpha male of the group
  • Kino-physical contact
Basic Game Summarized:
I summarized for my friend everything he needs to do to get a girl attracted to him. I've invested my time into developing my game and it's paid off over the past few years I've been doing this.
  • Keep good eye contact-simple, look at her when you talk. Not at her body or around like you're detached from the conversation
  • Good body language-good posture, don't look uncomfortable, look natural
  • Good voice-she has to be able to hear you. A strong voice conveys confidence and power.
  • Good sense of humor-make her laugh, but don't be a clown
  • Know how to escalate physically-simple, know how to make physical contact and escalate it as your "relationship" moves on
  • Know how to extract and isolate-get her alone (if she's with a group)
  • Know the 90/10 rule-simple way of opening. You ask a question that makes her not have to think much.
"Hey, what's your favorite color?"
"[color]"
"That's interesting. Did you know a person's favorite color says a lot about their personality?"
"Really? What does [color] mean?"
"Blah Blah Blah"

It's simple stuff. All it takes is the confidence to go up and talk. If you approach at least a few people everyday, make small talk, work on eye contact, voice, and body language, you will be able to talk to anyone with out stuttering or mumbling or looking stupid.


Recommended Material:
  • The Game by Neil Strauss
  • Rules of the Game by Neil Strauss
  • Foundations by Real Social Dynamics
  • Blueprints by Real Social Dynamics
  • The Venusian Arts Handbook by Mystery
All of these things can be "acquired" for free. All are really good. The last one is good for beginners, none of these are meant for you to use the canned lines from the book.
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Old 09-06-2008, 10:19 PM   #2
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Old 09-07-2008, 05:29 AM   #3
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You guys who use these weird terms and refer to yourselves as 'pick up artists' kind of weird me out. Some of what you say is true but I find your mentality really, really creepy.

I'd probably be a pretty helpful contributor to a thread like this but...count me out.

Let me know when someone normal starts a thread like this. Over and out.
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Old 09-07-2008, 06:00 AM   #4
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lol.
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anyone can pick up a girl, its holding onto them thats the challenge.
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Old 09-07-2008, 07:23 AM   #5
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Read Tucker Max... everyone.
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Old 09-07-2008, 08:06 AM   #6
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Tucker Max is a clown. Even if you're into the whole 'pickup artist' thing, Tucker is a very poor example. If you can find an account from someone who has actually hungout with him, (which is difficult because he has everything negative about him removed via legal action) they'll say that most of the women Tucker approaches laugh in his face. Not to mention numerous people who say that his stories never happened.
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Old 09-07-2008, 08:15 AM   #7
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i dont buy that tucker max's storys are true, clearly its not
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Old 09-07-2008, 09:30 AM   #8
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Im not the best at this kind of stuff, mainly because I didnt really open up socially until after HS (about a year or so). In that time, I reflected upon all the mistakes Ive made, and came to one conclusion: I dont care. I act around biddys like I act around anyone else, which is usually half baked and tired. Still though, I got swagger. This thread could be helpful, but keep in mind not to over analyze stuff and not to get this profile in your head of what kind of kind can get what kind of girl, etc.
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Old 09-07-2008, 12:15 PM   #9
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Personally I think PUA and playing "The Game', is despicable. Girl are not objects, and PUA treat them like it, if not worse.. The object, and the object of this thread, should be to help guys out that don't know what they are doing or are to scare and need some confidence. Not to get in the girls pants, treat her like an object that can be throw away, and not to treat dating like a video game.

That said, yes The Game, and books like it, are decent books. They help with confidence and stuff like that, but you shouldn't use them as anything more than that..
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Old 09-07-2008, 12:23 PM   #10
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I began playing "The Game" .

You just made me lose a different game.

Though lately I guess I've been playing the "get to her by becoming friends with one of her friends" type of game, it appears to be working, though I think the friend is playing some "game" with me because she keeps saying things like, "she's driving crazy, I need to find her a boyfriend!"
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Old 09-07-2008, 12:26 PM   #11
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Though I hate what PUA stand for and don't agree with treating women like objects, this site does have some good articles and are fairly interesting.
http://www.seductiontuition.com/pick-up-artists.html
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Old 09-07-2008, 12:35 PM   #12
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anyone can pick up a girl, its holding onto them thats the challenge.
Agreed full heartedly. And it's holding on to them that matters the most. Anyone that is a "Pick Up Artist." is also known by many different terms as well. Player, Man Whore, Typical Guy, Jerk, word that rhymes with Flick, you get the idea.
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Hm couldn't agree more.. Getting with my GF, at the time, it was the hardest thing I have ever done. A year later, looking back, that was the easy part of the relationship.. Even after all the problems, and issues I wouldn't change a second of it. It was totally worth it.
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Old 09-07-2008, 02:12 PM   #14
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Lets wait for some form of female to get into this thread shall we
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Old 09-07-2008, 02:16 PM   #15
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I would prefer girl questions that having a girl in here... When asking for advice with girls from girls, you rarely get the right answer. Girl tell you what they WANT their guy to do, no actually what works on them.
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First of all girls are easy to keep. They are hard to get rid of. Girls are easy to get. All you have to do is put in a little effort in and spend some time with them. There is also nothing wrong with being a "player" What happens if you are like me and cant stand being in a relationship but love the one thing that comes along with it. There are also girls out there that arnt looking for anything more then a little fun. See I have this problem of loving women and not woman.
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Tucker Max is most likely full of crap but who cares, his stories are pretty funny. My only problem with him is that he passes it all off as truth.

Also, he probably subscribes to the school of thought that a few of my friends do; if you approach enough girls in a single night, eventually you'll meet one who wants you right then and there. If you strike out 9 times but the tenth one goes home with you, mission accomplished.

Anyway honestly girls are such a hassle and 90% of the ones I meet aren't particularly interesting to me. Its been awhile since I actively pursued a girl and I couldn't be happier about it. Now if only I could get rid of the ones pursuing me, my life would be alot more enjoyable.
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Its been awhile since I actively pursued a girl and I couldn't be happier about it.

Im at the part where I've just gotten off a serious relationship and i want to move to the part where Im not actively pursueing a specific girl and Im finding it a little hard to get my game back, so to speak.
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Im at the part where I've just gotten off a serious relationship and i want to move to the part where Im not actively pursueing a specific girl and Im finding it a little hard to get my game back, so to speak.
I got out of a long-term relationship in March and had the same problem with feeling that my game wasn't what it used to be. Even if you're not really trying to pick up girls, you still want to be able to if the situation calls for it. This is something alot of guys deal with after being tied down for awhile, it'll come back. I just focused on having fun and being relaxed when I met girls for the first time at parties, when hanging out with friends, at bars, etc. You don't even have to practice your "game" per se, because 90% of that is just confidence, and if you build up your confidence and get the right mindset your game will come back automatically.
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